But it is a good time to relax and get intimate with your partner, especially if the sexual positions you've been using didn't allow for much intimate contact such as stroking, fondling and kissing. In between gently snogging each other to death and giving each other love bites you might even - gasp! - take this opportunity to talk. Tell your partner what you liked and what you would have liked to have done - learn about each other and from your sex session on how to please your partner more the next time around, or to seek reassurance that what you're doing is good stuff. And, if you get bored, you can always duck under and indulge in a little more oral sex